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Speed Dating: Only
For The Desperate?
A common misconception of dating services is that they
are filled with desperate people. Remember this -- people
who seek out a dating service are taking control of their
love life. Today, dating over the internet and events like
speed dating are becoming more and more common because the
demands of modern life often inhibit our ability to meet new
people and form new relationships. Speed dating, rather than
being an activity of the desperate, is instead an accepted
way for busy people to meet each other.
Speed Dating: Be the Best You
During a speed dating event, too many people pretend to be
someone they are not in hopes of getting more people
interested in them, and more dates. They may get more dates,
but they will be wasting everyone's time. Think about it
this way: if you want to find someone to be with for the
long haul, they need to like you for who you are.
Communicate who you are from the very first date, and you'll
not only find someone, you'll find the RIGHT someone.
Speed Date Topics
The question shouldn't be, "What should I talk about on a
speed date?" Instead ask, "How can I listen better?" You
should go into each speed date with a few questions that
you'd like to ask, but then let the conversation flow from
there. You'll learn a lot more listening to the other person
than talking his or her ear off. Don't try and give or glean
all the details in a single meeting, either -- leave at
least a few surprises for later in the relationship.
Four Steps to Speed Dating Success
There are a lot of speed dating services out there, so you
may have trouble deciding which one to choose. Here are a
few factors to consider when narrowing down the list. 1.
Size -- If you don't like crowds, a smaller speed dating
event may be the ticket. Some services limit the number of
people to 24 with meeting times as short at six minutes. 2.
Location -- Speed dating events take place at a variety of
venues – so select a service that has events at a place you
like. You'll probably meet like-minded singles, which is the
whole point! 3. People -- Who is going to these events? If
you want to meet other young professionals, find a service
that will introduce you to other young professionals. Find
your niche – it will make speed dating more fun and you're
more likely to meet someone compatible. 4. Price – See how
much the event costs and select one in your price range.
Speed Dating Dress Code
Speed dating means you are going to meet a lot of people, so
you want to make a good first impression. Obviously make
sure you are freshly showered and that you have brushed your
teeth. And when dressing for the big event, dress nicely.
Remember, you aren't going clubbing, but you aren't going to
work, either. So select an outfit that tells people a little
about your personality and interests. The most important
speed dating tip: don't try to look like someone you aren't.
Be who you are, quirks and all. |
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